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Carrying
past emotions, fears, misunderstandings, jealousies etc. from
the past can be a heavy load. Our memories may well go back
into our childhood where our child self would have been ill
equipped to deal with situations of an adult world.
These
memories may have made us fearful and quiet or propelled us
to be loud and confrontational. All of us are unique in the
way that we take in our experiences.
The
emotions from a marriage or relationship split which are still
controlling us years later can make life very challenging.
The need to move forward is strong but anchored to bad memories
may not allow us to trust new situations. Sometimes memories
can be very good and we feel that nothing else will match
them.
NLP
can allow us to safely return to these times in our past which
allows us to understand the whole picture. Once the past is
understood, the painful emotional baggage can be released
and new insights can be brought into the present and free
up the future.
Unsure
of the future
Equally
for some the future holds doubt and uncertainly which make
can make one feel stuck. Although not happy in the present,
they feel that there are no choices or that confidence is
low and therefore opportunities not even investigated. With
a combination of NLP and life coaching an appetite for the
future will unfold.
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